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must love the very thing I am studying. If you want to understand a
child, you must love and not condemn him. You must play with him, watch
his movements, his idiosyncrasies, his ways of behavior; but if you
merely condemn, resist or blame him, there is no comprehension of the
child. Similarly, to understand what is, one must observe what one
thinks, feels and does from moment to moment. That is the actual.
- Jiddu Krishnamurti - The Book of Life